tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post5569016864042455426..comments2024-01-06T02:43:32.491+08:00Comments on Pi's T W I S T: The problematic young woman - Part 5Pi Banihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-85601705694267333192008-03-02T15:44:00.000+08:002008-03-02T15:44:00.000+08:00Winnie:No, Zana is not getting married again (not ...<B>Winnie</B>:<BR/>No, Zana is not getting married again (not yet anyway!). That's why she feels Kak Hawa won't let her take her child - because she told Kak Hawa earlier she'd take the child when she gets married. She probably thinks that now she has got herself a job she should be able to take care of the child. But frankly, I can't even be sure how long she can last with this job!Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-5218352498867136742008-03-02T04:45:00.000+08:002008-03-02T04:45:00.000+08:00y did zana suddenly want to take care of her son n...y did zana suddenly want to take care of her son now when she didnt even want to visit him? hmm, is she getting married again? as u mentioned Zana told Kak Hawa that she’d take the child back from Kak Hawa once she gets married? if not, she really dont seems to be ready for that childwinniethepoohhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00819214111724308315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-14953446563962121502008-02-29T21:44:00.000+08:002008-02-29T21:44:00.000+08:00Kerp:Whoa... wait a minute! What in the world made...<B>Kerp</B>:<BR/>Whoa... wait a minute! What in the world made you think Kak Hawa was evil? Not from my postings I hope? She's a very caring person - otherwise she wouldn't be taking care of so many HIV infected and affected children la brader...Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-60090114066746006872008-02-29T21:21:00.000+08:002008-02-29T21:21:00.000+08:00Yes, everybody has said it. She's not fit enough t...Yes, everybody has said it. She's not fit enough to take care of herself, let alone her kid. the phonebills, sleeping on the job,...that says alot already. And i thought kak hawa was evil all these while.Kerp (Ph.D)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08187993712816646804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-78514343663124073972008-02-29T17:18:00.000+08:002008-02-29T17:18:00.000+08:00Nightwing:Changing her ways is not as easy as just...<B>Nightwing</B>:<BR/>Changing her ways is not as easy as just talking to her. Both Kak Hawa and myself have been trying to do that since we knew her. If she ever does change her ways, it will take quite some time. We just have to keep on trying.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-55995149346915932432008-02-29T16:01:00.000+08:002008-02-29T16:01:00.000+08:00Helo Kak,1k bill sure is high. Agree with Pak Zawi...Helo Kak,<BR/><BR/>1k bill sure is high. <BR/><BR/>Agree with Pak Zawi's statement.<BR/><BR/>Hope she will change her ways after ur talk with her.Nightwinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08486754485742899832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-53648605332762156672008-02-29T12:56:00.000+08:002008-02-29T12:56:00.000+08:00Neny:I have no doubts whatsoever that Kak Hawa wou...<B>Neny</B>:<BR/>I have no doubts whatsoever that Kak Hawa would take better care of the child. But I will still try to get Zana to visit the child as often as she can.<BR/><BR/>As for creating a scene at the shelter home, that might happen only if Kak Hawa is not around when she's there. She has some respect for Kak Hawa so I don't think she'd make a scene in Kak Hawa's presence. I do hope Zana would only visit when Kak Hawa is around.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-65860793323059856042008-02-29T12:20:00.000+08:002008-02-29T12:20:00.000+08:00Kak Pi, After reading this post, and the previous ...Kak Pi, <BR/><BR/>After reading this post, and the previous posts of zana, I'm voting for the child to stay with Kak Hawa. <BR/><BR/>No doubt, the child needs the love from his mother but the mother has to be responsible enough. At the moment, zana only deserve the visit (if she wishes to visit, right?)<BR/><BR/>But can you or kak hawa stop her from taking the child? What if she's so stubborn in wanting the child? She could create a scene, couldnt' she if she is not allowed to take the child?Nenyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16908244475299102057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-829872357424143022008-02-29T09:53:00.000+08:002008-02-29T09:53:00.000+08:00Kina:I too feel the boy is better off with Kak Haw...<B>Kina</B>:<BR/>I too feel the boy is better off with Kak Hawa. But at the same time I want the child to know his mother. As such I still need to encourage Zana to go visit the child as often as she can. I'm telling her that the only way for her to get back the child is to show that she really cares. No one is going to believe that if she doesn't even bother to visit the child.<BR/><BR/>One step at a time. And the first step is for her to go to the shelter home to see her child, and at the same time, meet Kak Hawa and talk things over.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-88086197264645509162008-02-29T09:47:00.000+08:002008-02-29T09:47:00.000+08:00Akmal:Special someone? Well, maybe so. And maybe t...<B>Akmal</B>:<BR/>Special someone? Well, maybe so. And maybe too she has been talking to too many boyfriends!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, she is egoistic alright. Apologising is not in her dictionary. Very very keras hati. Kena main reverse psychology. See lah how...Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-9240803052980782162008-02-29T09:42:00.000+08:002008-02-29T09:42:00.000+08:00Zawi:Yes, I too think she's not ready to take care...<B>Zawi</B>:<BR/>Yes, I too think she's not ready to take care of the child. But that doesn't mean we can just buat donno. We still have to encourage Zana to see the child. No matter how irresponsible the mother may be, the child has the right to know his own mother.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-71961123697528412292008-02-29T08:45:00.000+08:002008-02-29T08:45:00.000+08:00Kak Pi,As a mother of 3, I simply do not understan...Kak Pi,<BR/><BR/>As a mother of 3, I simply do not understand how Zana can let her son stay with someone else and not bother on how things are going.<BR/><BR/>She may be eager to take the son back, but if I were Kak Hawa, I'll say: Talk to the hand, Missy!<BR/><BR/>She has difficulty in settling down herself whatmore in a kid in tow.<BR/><BR/>I personally think that her son is better off with Kak Hawa.<BR/><BR/>I cringed the thought that she might be leaving the son alone in the house while she goes out working/ socializing. Nauzubillah<BR/><BR/>I hope you can talk some sense into her. <BR/><BR/>Undilah Kak Pi utk selamat, aman, makmur!kinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00015327351460772831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-14427075839981430882008-02-28T19:15:00.000+08:002008-02-28T19:15:00.000+08:00Kak Pi,RM1k on the phone bill??? Does this involvi...Kak Pi,<BR/>RM1k on the phone bill??? Does this involving 'special someone'?<BR/>It is unacceptable not to visit her child just because because of other occupants. I mean, she is visitingh who? Her child or someone else? I am not in her shoe, so I don't know what she had in mind. But I can't help it but to think the way you did. She's just ego, and egoistic can be very painful especially to others.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09049186626886223888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-29164124852341359832008-02-28T19:09:00.000+08:002008-02-28T19:09:00.000+08:00Pi,Zana isn't ready to take back her child yet. Sh...Pi,<BR/>Zana isn't ready to take back her child yet. She is so irresponsibled. The child deserve better care than what the mother could give.Pak Zawihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10811910594190129145noreply@blogger.com