tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post1016335172763202381..comments2024-01-06T02:43:32.491+08:00Comments on Pi's T W I S T: How to break the news?Pi Banihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-75350359002035508692008-11-07T18:07:00.000+08:002008-11-07T18:07:00.000+08:00Arahman7:At least you took precautions by not usin...Arahman7:<BR/>At least you took precautions by not using syringe. Dalam pada terjebak tu masih lagi beringatlah.<BR/><BR/>Memang when one is already in deep s**t, serba salah nak buat decision and don't know what to do next. In many cases, they try to avoid the problem instead of trying to solve it. Takut nanti bini marah, tak payah bagitau. I know of a few cases whereby the wives only found out when their husbands dah teruk (even though the husbands knew about their HIV much earlier). In fact, some only knew after their husbands' death.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-73353230120482593432008-11-07T17:11:00.000+08:002008-11-07T17:11:00.000+08:00This is one of the reasons why I was so afraid of ...This is one of the reasons why I was so afraid of using syringe during my <I>drug</I> days. I don't know what I gonna do should it happened to me? <BR/><BR/>Will I be as brave as Razif or I took a short-way out like I used to do whenever I came across with problems?<BR/><BR/>I used to think that way too, <I>"I'm not gonna be addicted"!</I> And it took me a long long twenty-four years before I finally admitted that, <I>"My name is ArahMan7 and I AM a drug addict."</I><BR/><BR/>Greetings and lots of love from Kuale Kangsor.<BR/><BR/>~ <A HREF="http://arahman7.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">ArahMan7</A>ArahMan7https://www.blogger.com/profile/10800847777772543779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-7107160137028985162008-11-07T12:46:00.000+08:002008-11-07T12:46:00.000+08:00Daph:Yes lor... that's why I said we can go to the...Daph:<BR/>Yes lor... that's why I said we can go to the house to talk to the wife <B>IF HE WANTS US TO</B>. You think he'd want us to? Naaah!! Even those who are already our clients, we'd only visit them at home with their permission. Otherwise, even our usual house visits will also be classified as menyibuk.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-18716316376689641012008-11-07T12:36:00.000+08:002008-11-07T12:36:00.000+08:00Hi Kak Pi,How are you? Lama tak datang jenguk you ...Hi Kak Pi,<BR/><BR/>How are you? Lama tak datang jenguk you lar...<BR/><BR/>Honestly, I would think the Buddies going to break the news to his wife is a bad idea lor...<BR/><BR/>It's like 'menyibuk' you know? I know that's not your intention, but this is like a private moment where the wife needs to grief (for her hubby's infidelity, his infection and the possibility she might have it too)...<BR/><BR/>So letting the doctors who are trained to do so is probably the best...<BR/><BR/>That's my personal opinion, anyway...Daphne Linghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15203105761769093793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-48796596184256983072008-11-07T08:01:00.000+08:002008-11-07T08:01:00.000+08:00Kerp:Eh, buat perkara sunat ni dapat pahala tau! Y...Kerp:<BR/>Eh, buat perkara sunat ni dapat pahala tau! You mean dia dapat pahala kalau tipu bini dia ke? :)<BR/><BR/>No-lah, alang-alang nak bagitau the wife, might as well tell her the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth!Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-4453248968320521282008-11-07T07:53:00.000+08:002008-11-07T07:53:00.000+08:00Sue:Not to worry, at least in the doctor's room an...Sue:<BR/>Not to worry, at least in the doctor's room and the counselling room at the HIV clinic, those sharps objects aren't lying around. Yang banyak ARV drugs!<BR/><BR/>I agree Razif should be man enough to tell his wife himself. But after talking to him, I doubt he will if we leave it up to him. Chances are he'd chicken out every time he's about to open his mouth to tell her. To me now tak kiralah cara macam mana sekalipun, the wife needs to know and she needs to know ASAP!Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-74574900837153910902008-11-07T01:01:00.000+08:002008-11-07T01:01:00.000+08:00i'm not sure if this would work but cant he just t...i'm not sure if this would work but cant he just tell the wife he got it through IVDU instead of telling her the truth? tipu sunat to save his ass. she may get upset initially but once he got that cleared, how he got infected will no longer matter.Kerp (Ph.D)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08187993712816646804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-33752885595241875582008-11-07T00:14:00.000+08:002008-11-07T00:14:00.000+08:00is it a good idea to break the news to the wife in...is it a good idea to break the news to the wife in a place where scissors, scalpels, needles and loads of other sharp objects are lying around?<BR/>:-)<BR/><BR/>i think Razif should be man enough to tell the wife himself. He got himself into this mess, and dragged her along with him. It's only right that he owns up to it.Typhoon Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09089237849382243654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-91148481836384155542008-11-06T18:06:00.000+08:002008-11-06T18:06:00.000+08:00Pak Malim:Itulah pasal, kata Pi Bani sambil bermai...Pak Malim:<BR/>Itulah pasal, kata Pi Bani sambil bermain futsal. Masalah ni berkait-kait, kata Pi Bani sambil mengait. Kalau sorang je yang kena satu hal, kata Pi Bani yang jual mahal. Ni keluarga pun mungkin terjebak sama, katanya lagi sambil baca cerita Obama.<BR/><BR/>p/s<BR/>Pak Malim terlibat dengan arson? tanya Pi Bani sambil menonton cerita Perry Mason. Boleh tahan nakal, pikir Pi Bani sambil mengayuh basikal.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-79263770754988907782008-11-06T17:48:00.000+08:002008-11-06T17:48:00.000+08:00Komen Pak Malim kucing ray yg alim.Pi Bani, Saya d...Komen Pak Malim kucing ray yg alim.<BR/><BR/>Pi Bani, <BR/><BR/>Saya dah keluar dari prison, kata Pak Malim yg kena tangkap sebab arson, jadi saya boleh bercakap, kata Pak Malim sambil makan ikan siakap. Masalah Razif agak rumit, kata Pak Malim yg sakit tumit, kerana ia bukan sahaja membabitkan dirinya sendiri, tetapi orang lain, kata Pak Malim sambil memakai kain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-79137546740005679092008-11-06T17:03:00.000+08:002008-11-06T17:03:00.000+08:00Pak Zawi:Problem is people like to think that bad ...Pak Zawi:<BR/>Problem is people like to think that bad things will only happen to others, not to them. So they don't take precautions. They don't heed advice from others.<BR/><BR/>I too hope Razif's wife and children are spared from the virus. But at the same time we can't simply punish Razif and let him suffer by himself. It is our duty to lift his spirits and lead him to the right path. He already had his punishment di dunia ni lagi. If he loses hope and faith, he may stray even further, and spreads the virus to even more people.Pi Banihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09227545429070294956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5424976298336470690.post-90357064087093728902008-11-06T15:47:00.000+08:002008-11-06T15:47:00.000+08:00Pi,When will anybody ever learn of such dangers? W...Pi,<BR/>When will anybody ever learn of such dangers? When going for such pleasures they will always think that they are doing it with someone clean. <BR/>Now the worry is whether the innocent wife and children will be affected too. Please God help them. Just let Razif suffer because he was the one who brought it upon himself.Pak Zawihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10811910594190129145noreply@blogger.com